1. Let your pet nuzzle blues away
Sometimes your pet really can be your best friend, and that's good therapy. When you play with him, you take your mind off your problems. And when you take care of him, you're focused on something outside yourself, which can be therapeutic.
2. Eat smart to lift mind and body
No specific foods treat depression, but a healthy diet can be part of an overall treatment plan. Build your meals and snacks around plenty of fruits, vegetables, and whole grains.
Choose foods to boost your mood—some studies say omega-3 fatty acids and vitamin B12 may play a role with brain chemicals that affect mood and other brain functions. Low levels may be linked to depression. Fatty fish like salmon, tuna, and mackerel have omega-3s. So do flaxseed, nuts, soybeans, and dark green veggies. Seafood is a good B12 source, but vegetarians can get it in fortified cereals, dairy products, and supplements.
Try low-fat carbs for a pick-me-up. Carbohydrates raise your level of the brain chemical serotonin, which boosts your sense of well-being. You can get carbs from vegetables, fruit, and whole grains, which also give you fiber.
3. Drink less caffeine
Do you really need that third cup of coffee? Anxiety often happens along with depression. And too much caffeine can make you nervous, jittery, or anxious. While scientists haven't found a clear link between caffeine and depression, cutting back on it may help lower your chances of having the condition and improve your sleep.
4. Treat your aches and pains
When you hurt, it's hard to stay in a good mood. Work with your health care team to treat your depression and your pain.
5. Work out to change how you feel
Exercise works almost as well as antidepressants for some people. And you don't have to run a marathon. Just take a walk with a friend. As time goes on, move more until you exercise on most days of the week. You'll feel better physically, sleep better at night, and boost your mood.
Choose an exercise you enjoy. If you don't like to run, you might not endure training for a 10K race. But you will stay with an exercise plan you like. You can take walks, go golfing without a cart, ride a bike, work in your garden, play tennis, or go swimming. The important thing is to pick something you like. Then you'll look forward to it and feel better when you do it.
Exercise with others for support--connections with other people can help you overcome the sluggish, lonely feelings of depression. Join an online exercise group or grab your mask and walk with a friend. You'll stay in touch and have support to keep yourself on track.
6. Get enough sunlight
Do you feel more depressed during darker, cold months? You may have seasonal affective disorder (SAD). It's most common in the winter, when there's less sunlight. You can treat SAD with light therapy, antidepressants, Vitamin D supplements, and talk therapy.
7. Explore your creativity
Painting, photography, music, knitting, or writing in a journal are all ways you can explore your feelings and express what's on your mind. The goal isn't to create a masterpiece. Do something that gives you pleasure. It may help you better understand who you are and how you feel.
8. Make time for mindful relaxation
Stress and anxiety can add to your depression symptoms and make it harder to recover. Learn to relax, and you can help restore a sense of calm and control. You might consider a yoga or meditation class. Or you could simply listen to soothing music while you take a long, warm bath.
9. Get involved in your community
When you spend time with people or causes you care about, you can regain a sense of purpose. And it doesn't take much to get started. You can volunteer with a charity. Or join a discussion group at the library or at church. You'll feel good about yourself when you meet new people and do new things.
10. Keep friends and family in your life
The people who love you want to support you. If you shut them out, they can't. If you let them in, you'll feel a lot better. Call a friend. Have a cup of tea with your partner. You may find it helps to talk about your depression. It feels good to have someone listen.
11. Get the sleep you need
Depression makes it hard to get good rest. Some people sleep too much. Others can't fall asleep easily. As you recover, relearn good nighttime habits. Start by going to bed and getting up the same times each day. Use relaxation techniques to help you drift off. Quality shut-eye makes your mind and body feel better.
12. Avoid alcohol and drugs
They can slow your recovery from depression or stop it in its tracks. They can also make the condition worse and keep antidepressants from working well. If you have a problem with substance abuse, ask for help now. You'll have a far better chance of getting past depression.
13. Stick to your treatment
Exercise, a healthy diet, and other good habits may help you feel positive about your life. But they won't replace medical treatment or talk therapy. Depression is a serious illness, and it carries a risk of suicide. If you are thinking about harming yourself, get help right away. And never stop or change your treatment without discussing it with your doctor.
SeniorBridge care teams can help, with coordination of doctor visits and medications, assessing dietary needs, and/or by providing regular social interaction and help with favorite hobbies and activities.
“17 Everyday Ways to Ease Depression,” WebMD, https://www.webmd.com/depression/find-happy-17/slideshow-depression-diet-stress-exercise, last accessed September 13, 2020